Question. I had intercourse, using a condom, with a prostitute a month ago. I kissed her vagina without opening my mouth. Is there any chance of me contracting HIV? I have been weak and tired. Three months ago, I had sex with my girlfriend and my penis shrunk. I weigh 72 kilos and am 24. For my age, what should my weight be?

Answer. Since your penis
and mouth worked with the sex
worker, but the penis shrank with the girlfriend, it indicates you are normal
but nervous. You must reduce your
weight and put your mouth to better
use. To be safe, get tested for STDs.

Question. I am 30 years old and my wife is 25. We have a fairly good sex life. I get turned on by movie scenes of men getting slapped by beautiful women. Sometimes, my wife gives me a few light slaps on my cheeks and I enjoy it. Is it okay to continue this occasionally? Will it cause harm in the long run?

Answer. Enjoy yourself. I
am sure she enjoys it too. No harm.

Question. Is homosexuality a disease or a state of mind? My younger brother got divorced because he came out as a homosexual. Now my mother is forcing him to get married again. She believes she can find a good doctor who will cure him. My brother has agreed to get married a second time. But I know this marriage too will end. I am worried as I don’t want another woman to spoil her life because of my brother’s foolishness.

Answer. Homosexuality is an alternate way of
sexuality. You must hear your brother
out and do what he thinks is best for
him. All he needs is love and support
from you and your mother.

Question. I am a 24-year-old healthy man. I masturbate three-four times daily and usually ejaculate within five to six minutes. Last month, I tried to have sex with my partner for the first time. But during foreplay, I could not control my hands and started masturbating, because of which I ejaculated before penetration. After that I did not get an erection for the entire day. However, I had a normal erection the next day. After this episode, I have never had sex with my partner. Why did this happen to me? Please help.

Answer. You have become
addicted to masturbation. Doing it a
number of times daily is going to lead
to trouble, some of which you are already experiencing. Try breaking the
habit and reduce masturbation to three
times a week only.

Question. When I masturbate, it takes me about five to 10 minutes to ejaculate. But I’ve tried having sex with my girlfriend four to five times and have been unable to get even an erection. The one time I did get it, it took me over 30 minutes to ejaculate. My sex life is in danger and I can’t enjoy it. What should I do?

Answer.
Sheer nervousness is the cause. Relax
and all will be well. If there is a delay in
ejaculation, withdraw the penis from the vagina, masturbate and near
ejaculation, re-insert.

Question. I am 49 and my wife is 45. We have sex twice a week. Now my wife wants sex every night and often fondles and sucks my penis when I am asleep. It results in erection and I am forced to have sex with her. I enjoy it but am not able to get full sleep.

Answer. Make up for the sleep in the
afternoon or when you return from
work before dinner. Thank your lucky
stars you have a wife who gives you
so much pleasure but I am not sure you appreciate it.

Question. I'm 38, unmarried, pure veg, God-fearing and I help poor people. For two years, I've encountered frequent nightfall and stupid dreams one-two times a week. Every night my penis becomes stiff. I sleep only with bikini briefs and my semen spoils the clean bed. Kindly suggest a herbal medicine to stop nightfall, erections and to get peace of mind and harmony. I have less/negligible chest hair, but the facial hair is intense.

Answer. God gave you a body and mind to do good, he also
gave you sexual desire for pleasure
with the main thought of conception.
The sperms produce at such a rapid rate
that the old just have to leave, hence
the nightfall. The sperms can also be discharged by masturbation or
intercourse. Your dreams are trying to
tell you to form a bond with someone.
Then you will have peace and
harmony. Be satisfied with your hair
distribution.

Question. Are condoms effective if used under water, like in a bathtub with the privates submerged? What if we go unprotected? Can conception occur, or will the water dilute the spermatic fluid?

Answer. The condom will be effective under water unless
you lose erection and it floats away. Of
course, conception can occur. Your
sperms will be snugly around the
uterus mouth, deep in the vagina. The
excess will keep you both company.

Question. I am 18 and a virgin. My penis is six inches long. Does masturbation increase its size? Am I eligible to have sex now? Please help.

Answer. Your
penis size is normal and it does not
need an enlargement. Masturbation does not increase the size of the penis.
Are you sufficiently educated about
the pros and cons of sex? I suggest
give yourself a year more. The legal
age to get married, however, is 21
years.

Question. Which is the most intense orgasm — vaginal, anal or through mammary intercourse — for women? Does it differ from woman to woman based on erogenous zones or cultivation? Some women say that a condom takes away pleasure. Then which is the safest method of contraception? Up to what age does a man produce sufficient semen and sperms to cause pregnancy? Please help.

Answer. Do you want to join the ranks of sexologists? What brings the
orgasm to you will also bring an
orgasm to the opposite sex. Every
woman is different. Some reach an
orgasm by fantasy alone, other by
masturbation. Some others want foreplay and a few others reach an
orgasm by intercourse. A variety of
female contraception is available, so
please take the trouble to search the
internet for more information. Charlie
Chaplin fathered a child in his late 70s.

Question. I am a 24-year-old unmarried man; my girlfriend is 22. While having sex I insert my penis, but it hurts me a lot. My partner too experiences a lot of pain. It takes me about seven to 10 minutes to ejaculate, but my girlfriend always asks me to stop it. Is this a symptom of some disease? Please help.

Answer. It depends on where she
experiences pain — at start or deep
inside. A gynecologist will able to help
her. You should get yourself checked by an urologist.

Question. I am a 24-year-old married woman and my husband is 25. We got married in April 2010. I'm very afraid of having intercourse with my husband because of the pain. We have sex, but he penetrates only the tip of his penis inside my vagina and within two to three strokes he gets satisfied. Please tell me if I will be able to conceive if we continue to have sex like this.

Answer. Semen can enter the
vagina in the way you are having intercourse right now and can cause a
pregnancy. Why not get over your
fear? The chances will then improve.
Apply a little Xylocaine gel 2% in and
around your vaginal opening and wait
for 15 minutes, then wash of the excess. You will then feel no pain.

Question. I am a 20-year-old girl. I feel like having sex with my boyfriend, but I have decided to to wait till I get married. I fulfill my urges by masturbating. I masturbate by inserting any long object like my fingers in my vagina. Is it safe? Can it cause any problem in the future? Should I stop?

Answer. Why don’t you
have dry sex with your clothes on
with your friend? Masturbation is
okay and is generally done over the vagina, but be sure what you insert is
clean

Question. I am an 18-year-old virgin. My boyfriend likes to lick my breasts very often and he wants to insert his finger into my vagina. But as soon as he starts the act, I suddenly get a severe pain and very soon, his mood changes. Is there any way that I can satisfy him without feeling the pain?

Answer. Apply a small quantity of
xylocaine gel 2% in and around the
vaginal opening. Wait for 15 minutes
and then wipe it off. You will not experience pain then.

Question. I am a 27-year-old married man. About six months ago my wife performed oral sex on me. We indulged in foreplay before intercourse so that she could have an orgasm. But she didn't get one. I usually ejaculate before she can climax and to satisfy her I need to continue stroking even if I lose my erection. Usually, after five to seven minutes she gets an orgasm. Why does she not get an orgasm during foreplay? What should I do so that she can climax earlier? Is it safe to continue stroking even after ejaculation? I use a condom.

Answer.
Try and be patient during foreplay and
she will get an orgasm, then start
having sex. If you finish earlier, do what you are doing, it is quite safe.

Question. I'm a 25-year-old woman. After four months of marriage, we decided to have a baby, so we had unprotected sex in the afternoon. Just two hours later, I had group sex with three college friends — without condoms. Now I am confused. If I get pregnant, who is the father of my baby? I don't want a baby from anyone but my husband.

Answer.
Confused? Just four months into
marriage you have an extra-marital binge. Make your own guess.

Question. I was on top of my girlfriend, cuddling her; we were clothed. At that moment, a transparent and sticky fluid came out of my penis. It was not semen. I am worried. How can I stop this fluid from coming out? Can you suggest medication?

Answer.
What you saw was the pre-lubricating
fluid that flows out of the penis during
state of arousal. It indicates that the
special gland in your body, designed to
do just that, is functioning normally.

Guy shaking Penis to make it hard

Question. When I sleep with a girl, I don’t get an erection. I have to shake my penis to make it hard. Help me with this Sir. Answer. Sorry, I cannot shake it for you. That it becomes erect after your efforts indicates you are physically fit; nervousness could be the cause. You may get over it soon.

Wife not washing private parts wants oral sex

Question. Recently I had unprotected intercourse at about 4 am in the morning. Couple of hours later my wife got her period. I noticed some blood stains on my penis, which I cleaned with soap. How could she not notice that she had her period during intercourse? Can she get pregnant? Also, sometimes she doesn’t wash her private parts after passing urine and expects me to perform oral sex on her, which I do. Is it harmful? Please guide. Answer. The menstruation period is considered as a safe time to avoid pregnancy. In fact it is believed that an orgasm during this period can help her reduce the discomfort and pain. As urine is sterile, performing oral sex on an unwashed body part is okay. It is better if she washed herself.