Monday 12 March 2012

Question. I had intercourse, using a condom, with a prostitute a month ago. I kissed her vagina without opening my mouth. Is there any chance of me contracting HIV? I have been weak and tired. Three months ago, I had sex with my girlfriend and my penis shrunk. I weigh 72 kilos and am 24. For my age, what should my weight be?

Answer. Since your penis
and mouth worked with the sex
worker, but the penis shrank with the girlfriend, it indicates you are normal
but nervous. You must reduce your
weight and put your mouth to better
use. To be safe, get tested for STDs.

Question. I am 30 years old and my wife is 25. We have a fairly good sex life. I get turned on by movie scenes of men getting slapped by beautiful women. Sometimes, my wife gives me a few light slaps on my cheeks and I enjoy it. Is it okay to continue this occasionally? Will it cause harm in the long run?

Answer. Enjoy yourself. I
am sure she enjoys it too. No harm.

Question. Is homosexuality a disease or a state of mind? My younger brother got divorced because he came out as a homosexual. Now my mother is forcing him to get married again. She believes she can find a good doctor who will cure him. My brother has agreed to get married a second time. But I know this marriage too will end. I am worried as I don’t want another woman to spoil her life because of my brother’s foolishness.

Answer. Homosexuality is an alternate way of
sexuality. You must hear your brother
out and do what he thinks is best for
him. All he needs is love and support
from you and your mother.

Question. I am a 24-year-old healthy man. I masturbate three-four times daily and usually ejaculate within five to six minutes. Last month, I tried to have sex with my partner for the first time. But during foreplay, I could not control my hands and started masturbating, because of which I ejaculated before penetration. After that I did not get an erection for the entire day. However, I had a normal erection the next day. After this episode, I have never had sex with my partner. Why did this happen to me? Please help.

Answer. You have become
addicted to masturbation. Doing it a
number of times daily is going to lead
to trouble, some of which you are already experiencing. Try breaking the
habit and reduce masturbation to three
times a week only.